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Valentine’s Day has become a cultural phenomenon globally, celebrated with roses, chocolates, and romantic gestures.
In Nigeria, the essence of this day often takes on a communal spirit, showcasing our vibrant culture of togetherness. Yet, this season also presents a timely opportunity to introspect and rediscover the transformative power of love—starting at the individual level.
Barnabas Akindele, a public relations expert said, “In a society like ours, often characterized by economic challenges, social tensions, and rapid urbanization, love is not just a luxury—it is a necessity.
“The demand for love transcends the romantic sphere. It finds expression in our relationships with family, friends, strangers, and, most importantly, with ourselves. Valentine’s Day, therefore, is not solely about gifting; it’s about giving something deeper—empathy, kindness, and understanding—qualities that are sorely needed in the Nigerian context today”.
Nigeria, with its diversity, thrives on its unique ability to bring people together across tribes, faiths, and socioeconomic backgrounds. Yet, recent years have tested this unity, with issues such as political divides, youth unemployment, and social injustice creating fractures in our collective harmony.
Many Nigerians, according to Akindele, carry unspoken emotional wounds, from the stress of survival in a tough economy to the trauma of societal inequities.
“This is where love, as a conscious act, becomes vital. Love is not merely an emotion but a decision to see and acknowledge the humanity in others, regardless of their differences. When individuals intentionally practice acts of kindness, forgiveness, and compassion, they create ripples that can heal families, strengthen communities, and transform society.
“This Valentine’s Day, Nigerians are called to look beyond flowers and dates and embrace the deeper meaning of love—love that transforms lives and strengthens communities.
“Love is not just a personal virtue—it is a national asset. A society that fosters love at the individual level builds a foundation for collective growth. When Nigerians love themselves and each other, it reflects in their sense of community, cooperation, and resilience.
Imagine a Nigeria where love inspires people to mentor the youth, care for the elderly, bridge ethnic gaps, and address societal challenges with empathy. This vision is achievable if we all start today—one act of love at a time”4.
Valentine’s Day is more than a date on the calendar; it is a reminder of the power we hold as individuals to love, heal, and transform our society. In a country as diverse and dynamic as Nigeria, “Love should not be a fleeting emotion but a daily choice to see and celebrate our shared humanity.
“So, as you buy gifts or plan outings this Valentine’s day, remember: love is a verb. It is in the way you treat yourself, the way you uplift others and the way you choose unity over division. Nigeria needs love—and it starts with you”, Akindele concluded.
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