You will hear ladies talk about their need for a sincere,loving,faithful,romantic....guy but when they eventually have one asking them out they start acting up and in most cases, they usually don't develop any feelings for such.
In many instances i have heard ladies say " x is a great guy, he is caring, romantic...but I don't have any feelings for him but g is who I want but he is just treating me like poo and making me unhappy"
Please how do we reconcile a situation where many ladies keep desiring guys who treat them like pooh and at the end they cry over avoidable heart break...
I have seen several cases where I will tell a lady clearly that I'm not in yet she will just be ok with flings yet she will tell me about men who are genuinely interested in them. I guess im the bad guy in this situation cos i have no feelings for them.
This is one mystery I don't understand but maybe anyone else can give a clear reason to this strange phenomenon.
Nairalanders over to you all.