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List Of Mistakes Men Make Early In Relationships That Scare Women Away

The beginning of a relationship is where the right foundation is set, when the right foundation is set, the relationship might go on to be a special one, but if it is set on a wrong foundation early on, then the relationship would only falter.

“Some ladies would agree that they have left a relationship early on simply because they felt things were not right and this situation has left a lot of men stunned, wondering what they did wrong”.

Listed below are mistakes men make early in a relationship that scares women off.

Putting too much focus on s3x:

“When you make s3x the centre of everything early in the relationship, you could pass a wrong message to her that it’s just the s3x you are in for, no woman enters a relationship just to be a s3x object; believing that you are trying to make her one might scare her away”.

You are a flirt:

“Every lady loves to know that her man is hers alone, so flirting with other women, especially early in the relationship would definitely scare her off; this would only show her that you probably don’t care about her enough to stick to her alone, flirting with other women just after winning her passes a message of you being a womaniser”.

Being overly controlling:

“She agreed to be your girlfriend in that relationship; not your maid, not an object you command but your partner in a relationship; not every woman can stand an overly controlling man, and when they notice this trait in him, they quit the relationship early on”.

Not being fully committed:

“At this early stage of the relationship, she needs total commitment from you; being hot and cold would only make her have doubts about you”.

When you don’t understand how she feels:

“Understanding how she feels, to a very reasonable extent, shows compatibility; however, when you don’t understand how she feels and you don’t make an attempt to, this could pose a problem, as she would feel that you are reluctant in having an understanding relationship with her”.

Your ex:

“Never bring up your ex to your new relationship, constantly bringing up talks about your ex would pass the message that you aren’t over her, and this could scare her away”.

You don’t make her a priority:

“When you are nonchalant about her position in your life, you take her for granted and don’t really make her a priority, she could get scared of having that relationship with you; women want to be the priority in your life, and when you show signs early on that it isn’t going to be possible then your relationship with that lady could get ruined”.

Your love is half-baked:

“Every woman wants to be loved genuinely and thoroughly; half-baked love with her wouldn’t make her feel secure and this could scare her away; women love to feel secure in their relationships; they want to be sure that they are entering a relationship with a man who would love them genuinely and thoroughly”.



  1. I concur with this post.

  2. True talk.


    Very true

  4. thanks for the information

  5. muhammed mustapha

    all is well

  6. Folurunsho Oluwatobi

    Thats true

  7. smile

  8. Yeah

  9. Ladies always feel that any man who doesn’t have sex with in a relationship has someone out there his giving it

  10. Christopher Eluwa

    well it’s both ways so they should learn too

  11. Ikuerowo Blessing

    But some ladies aren’t just understanding they call all these for them self

  12. awesome

  13. olaniyi olanitori


  14. Iheanyichukwu Lenchi

    Nice one. This is enlightening

  15. This is true sir, I go with it

  16. Sex should not be the foundation of relationship. Noted.

  17. I think personally if you want your relationship to be respected you should not build it on S3x

  18. Ladies always feel that any man who doesn’t have sex with in a relationship has someone out there his giving it

  19. There’s no way one can be perfect in a relationship. Loving your partner with his or her imperfections will make both of you last longer

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