NNU Update
Have a conversation with him and thank him for all he has done
Using the drama that ensued between BBNaija’s Queen Atang and her daughter’s father, Kelvin Anagbodu aka Lord Lamba earlier this week, businessman, Wale Jana, has advised single mums on how best to handle baby daddy’s drama after they have moved on with a new man.
In a post shared on Instagram, Wale said if the child’s father has been responsible for the upkeep of his child, the child’s mum is expected to have a conversation with him and thank him for all he has done before moving on with her love life.
Queen and Lord Lamba welcomed a daughter in December 2022 and for over a year, he refused to acknowledge their daughter publicly. However, after Queen announced her engagement to a UK-based biomedical scientist named David, the skit maker quickly shared photos of himself and their daughter and also shared a picture of her international passport data page, showing his surname.
Lamba also shared court documents showing that he has filed for sole custody of their daughter because he doesnt want another man to raise his child. Read here.
He added that now that Queen is about the get married, she would not have the time to give their daughter the care she deserves.
He then stated that his mother and sister will be better suited to care for the child.
Reacting to the drama via his Instagram page, Wale wrote;
”Yesterday I found this interesting story online about a lady called Queen who got engaged and her ex called Lamba whom she had a baby for decided to sue her. So I began to do a little research based on the facts I could find.
I found out that Queen dated the guy who engaged her in 2016 and then it looked like the guy moved abroad so she likely moved on and found this other guy called Lamba who got her pregnant but it seems that Lamba wanted to keep things off social media so he never posted that they had a child or the relationship was not a serious one. Whichever way he wanted to keep things coded.
Based on the court documents he said Queen denied him access to his child even though he had been responsible for the baby’s upkeep and he is suing because she’s trying to take his child abroad without his permission.
This is my opinion; it seems like Lamba was not happy Queen got pregnant, it seems like the pregnancy wasn’t planned so because of that he decided to keep things under wraps, this may have hurt Queen’s feelings and she moved on to her ex who still wanted a relationship but the way it seems she went about it is what is causing the issues. Lamba alleged that she didn’t give him access to his child and so because of that he is going to frustrate her movement to the UK.
Women need to learn something; men don’t do well with disrespect! If a man has been responsible for his child and you want to move on to another country with that same baby, have a conversation with him and thank him for all he has done, he won’t stand in your way! Every man knows that it is best for a child to stay with the mother! Lamba is obviously not interested in a relationship with Queen but he feels disrespected by the way she’s moving without acknowledging him as the father of a child he claims he has been responsible for. If you know Queen tell her to talk to Lamba and all will be resolved.”
