Actress Sarah Martins has sparked off a debate online after she came out publicly to kick against the notion that lovers should never sleep with each other before marriage.
‘’So a pastor said ‘’any man that asks you to sleep with him before marriage is a bicycle and that we should wait for our Bentley’.
My question is ‘what if I am the one that is the Bicycle and the man is the Bentley? because I am a girl’s girl, a lover girl, a girl that doesn’t like to cheta on a man. When I am in, I am in. I do not know how to play games. It is me versus my man and I. So why do you think I will blindly enter into a relationship or marriage without confirming the strength of my man or if he is actually a man down there before I finally say I do? Because I do not intend to start sneaking around after being married to my man.
It is okay for me to get to know this man in and out, sex inclusive before I finally get to settle down with him.
I do not understand the idea that people are throwing around that any man that asks you to sleep with him before marriage is this or that..Bro! It doesn’t work like that.
If you like make a man wait for ten years, any man that will stay will stay and any man that will leave you will leave you.
A man can stay with you for ten years but the very night he has his way, that same night, he wouldn’t leave you.
Making a man wait so long doesn’t guarantee a relationship or starving a man does not guarantee you being a good girl”
