She was there when you had less. Now that God increased you, you want to hide God's blessing in your marriage? Since God made you one on your wedding day, if you refuse to let her in on what God has done, it shall be taken away from you. For those who are painting women with black ink, we, the rest of the women, weren't there when you made a poor choice of a wife, so speak of your woman alone and don't speak for the other men whom you have no idea how they run their homes. Lament in your bitterness, but leave the other men out of it. Not all men are foolish.