A 26-year-old woman from Kogi State has stirred heated debates online after openly disclosing her transactional approach to relationships and her preference for a lifestyle centred on casual encounters.
In a now-viral video, the woman revealed that she avoids serious relationships, preferring instead to meet men, set her price, and walk away after the encounter.
According to her, she sleeps with up to 10 men monthly, charging ₦150,000 for a short session and ₦500,000 for an overnight stay.
“Relationship can wait till 30”
The woman stated that she intends to focus on her personal enjoyment until she reaches 30 years old, at which point she will consider marriage and serious commitments.
“When I turn 30, I’ll change my personality, my lifestyle, my dressing, actually a lot of things about myself,” she explained. “For now, I’m enjoying my single life. I don’t want the stress of checking calls, monitoring movements, or the drama that comes with relationships.”
She further dismissed men who earn ₦1 million monthly, saying it would be insufficient to maintain her lifestyle. In her words, “If he makes ₦1 million, that means he will give me ₦900,000 and keep ₦100,000 for himself. A whole me is the return nau. I’m satisfying him in bed and all that.”
Social media reactions
The video has triggered strong reactions on social media, with many Nigerians criticising her comments as irresponsible and misguided.
OlaMide commented: “See future mothers. God have mercy.”
Giffney wrote: “Coming from a lady that brings nothing.”
Stan added: “So nobody fit find this gal for me.”
P.O.E reacted: “Price and pay set but this one na Asaba Shoprite levels.”
HEY noted: “Coming from someone who doesn’t have up to 50k to her name.”
The viral disclosure continues to spark debate on morality, modern dating culture, and the pressures of materialism among Nigerian youth.
Watch the video below…
“Men who make ₦1 million monthly shouldn’t be in a relationship”
— Lady says. pic.twitter.com/F2gb1NYXbH
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) September 24, 2025
