A lady has stirred reactions online after advising men not to force their wives or girlfriends to stop communicating with their exes.

In a post on X (formerly Twitter), she wrote: “No matter what you do as a man, do not force your girlfriend to do these two things:

“1. Do not force her to stop talking to her ex.

“2. Do not force her to delete or block her ex’s contact from her phone.”

She explained that forcing a woman to cut ties with her ex will not change her feelings or the emotional connection she shares with him, adding that “women are loyal to their emotions.”

She further advised men to stay calm if their partner chats with an ex, especially when the breakup was amicable. “Just keep calm, do not force her,” she wrote.

The post also included cautionary advice for men. She suggested that if a woman continues to communicate with her ex despite warnings, men should shift their focus, plan their life independently, and consider marrying someone else to avoid risks of paternity fraud.

“Do not put love above common sense, or the joke will be on you for life,” she warned, noting that some women have committed paternity fraud while maintaining contact with former partners.

The post has since sparked widespread debate on relationship boundaries and trust, drawing diverse opinions from social media users.