Title: Soft Mum Era
Author: Mariam Pedro-Tijani
Year of Publication: 2025
Number of Pages: 120
Category: Self Help
It’s only a woman who enjoys hardship that wouldn’t be interested in reading Soft Mum Era. After all, who doesn’t want to live a soft life?
From the title to the tone, Mariam Pedro-Tijani’s book radiates calm, balance, and intention. It gently invites women especially mothers to embrace ease in their daily lives, and to do so without guilt. It’s a message that can’t be overemphasized, and yet the author wraps it beautifully in this comforting, relatable guide, a daily reminder that softness is strength too.
One look at her picture on the back cover and you’ll see it, she embodies the “soft mum” she writes about. Her writing is simple, warm, and engaging, giving you that nudge to care for yourself long before the “I’m too tired” or “I’m too busy” excuses start creeping in.
If you’re a mum, you’ll find yourself nodding in agreement from the very first page. She gets it, every late night, every anxious thought, and every tender moment. Her insights are drawn straight from lived experience. And though she doesn’t set out to alarm expectant mothers, her honesty about the realities of motherhood might just do that but in the best, most necessary way.
As always, she begins with her signature soft-mum tone, gentle and soothing. Then, just when you need it most, she shifts into motivation mode. Can you blame her? Her readers crave that encouragement. Before long, she eases back into her nurturing flow, finding that perfect balance between truth and tenderness.
What makes Soft Mum Era truly special is that Mariam doesn’t present herself as a superwoman. She teaches, empathizes, and encourages with a genuine warmth that makes you feel seen. At times, it feels like you’re chatting with a friend who’s been there and just wants you to breathe.
Though centered on motherhood, Soft Mum Era reaches far beyond it. The book touches on love, relationships, marriage, and parenting, making it a truly all-in-one read. It’s also bursting with practical tips you’ll want to revisit again and again. Don’t even think about giving it away, this one belongs on your bookshelf for keeps.
By the time you turn the last page, you might find yourself feeling energized and inspired to do more beyond motherhood, lacing up your Converse, ready to chase dreams and achieve new things.
And while it’s written with women in mind, Soft Mum Era is a valuable read for men too. It offers a rare, compassionate glimpse into the emotional and physical world their partners navigate daily. It bridges understanding and reminds everyone that motherhood isn’t a solo act, it’s a shared journey.
Whether you’re already a mum, hope to be one someday, or simply crave a softer, more intentional life, Soft Mum Era is a book every woman should own.
About the reviewer
Titilade Oyemade is a business executive in a leading organisation and holds a degree in Russian Language. She’s the convener of the Hangoutwithtee Ladies Event and the Publisher of Hangoutwithtee magazine. She spends her weekends attending women conferences, events and book readings. She loves to have fun and to help other women have the same in their lives. Email: [email protected] Social: @tiipreeofficial