Popular Nigerian Fuji musician Abass “Obesere” Akande is married to popular sex therapist Yinka “Yinka TNT” Ayanda as his second wife.
Obesere, also known as Omo Rapala, has been married to Abeni Tolanikawo for many years, and their union is blessed with children.
Yinka TNT, a mental health nurse, is known for using her social media platforms to educate her followers on sexual health, consent, contraception, safe practices, and relationships.
In December 2024, Yinka TNT, who was previously an air hostess before relocating to London, revealed in an interview that she was married and had children.
However, the Ondo-born singer did not disclose her husband’s or children’s identities. As of press time, it remains unconfirmed whether she is divorced or still with the said husband.
She explained that although she did not study sexual therapy, she operates her popular sex programme based on her marital experience, as well as insights gained from friends’ parents, sisters, and others around her when she goes out.
His manager, Arems Adeniyi, confirmed the development in an interview with PREMIUM TIMES on Monday.
He disclosed that Obesere will wed Yinka TNT, a UK-based relationship coach.
However, Mr Adeniyi noted that the date and venue of the wedding have not yet been finalised.
He said, “It is true that Obesere is getting married to a second wife. The news is already out there. He is getting married to Yinka TNT, but I cannot give you a specific date for the wedding because none has been fixed yet. Thank you.”
Introduction
This newspaper learnt that Yinka TNT announced earlier this month that she had introduced the 60-year-old to her family in a series of posts on her social media handles.
She also shared photos of herself with the Ibadan-born singer, dismissing doubts about the authenticity of their relationship.
Yinka TNT further revealed that the introduction video would be released on her Yoruba page.
However, checks by this newspaper showed that the video had not yet been uploaded to her YouTube channel. Instead, the only video available was a song featuring her and the “Introduction” hitmaker.
The video, titled “Ololufe”, was released on 7 September. It opened with Yinka TNT and Obesere lying in the same bed.
As morning broke, Yinka TNT got up, stretched, put on her sunglasses, and headed to the kitchen to wash dishes and prepare food.
In the video, she praised her lover, Obesere, and vowed to choose him again if given another chance to return to earth.
Nothing anybody can do
Furthermore, in a video she posted on her Facebook page on Wednesday, Yinka TNT stated that no one can do anything about her marriage to the singer.
She added that those condemning Obesere for choosing her are the same people who secretly desire him.
“I don’t know why you people are so wicked. Obesere isn’t complaining, yet you keep talking rubbish. Anyone who says they are unhappy with this marriage journey I have embarked on will never be successful. Such a person will never prosper. What exactly did I do to you? You all keep saying Obesere once said he could not marry two wives. Are you his parents, his mother, or his wife? What is your business? He has done it, so you can all go and die.
“They told me not to talk, but those close to Akande keep disturbing and harassing him, and it eventually gets to me. There is nothing you can do about it. I have married him, and there is nothing anyone can do to change it. Those talking only wish to marry him, but their destiny did not permit it.”
She also cursed anyone who did not wish her and Obesere well in their marriage.