A Nigerian woman, Seun Obajolu who is mental health nurse practitioner based in the U.S, has advised women who withhold s3x from heir husbands to leave the marriage. 

“Dear woman, If you’re going to be depriving or rationalizing shags/segz to your husband then just leave that marriage or be ready to dash him to someone else. If he broke your trust, yall find a solution- get couple’s therapy,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Friday. 

“I say this very respectfully but it’s delusional to think you would deprive your husband/ wife and he/she won’t go seeking this else….abeg nowwww,.”