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Odi shared how a fun Detty December night out turned into a night of secret, intense passion, and betrayal. He didn’t plan to sleep with his fiancée’s friend, but a wild game and the heat of the moment led him there. What began as an innocent kiss quickly became a full-blown affair. And ever since his fiancée discovered what happened, she has struggled to trust him again.
“I attended a white party, my guy was celebrating his birthday. I didn’t go with my fiancée because she traveled. At the party there were plenty of drinks, and I think I drank a lot. I was already high when the game began. The first dare was to the celebrant, he was dared to sleep with his girlfriend while we all watched but they ended up only touching each other because the girl refused to do so. When it was my turn, it was like a set up or the devil’s master plan. I dared to kiss a girl, who happened to be my fiancee’s close friend. I thought at first, it was only a kiss. And we kissed, I think the girl liked it, because she dug deeper into my lips and refused to let go of my lips. Then the next dare was for us to go inside the room and romance each other. “I won’t lie, that night, because of the things happening in my friend’s parlour, my body was already on fire, and I needed a woman badly. I think the girl too was ovulating – she was the first to rush into the room, and I followed her sheepishly. Honestly, I wasn’t thinking straight at that moment; we were both high. What started as a little fondling and kissing snowballed into a hot passionate love making. I had never enjoyed making love like that before. The girl was good, she did a lot of crazy things with my body and we even passed the time they gave us to stay in the room. They had to force us out of the room.
“This was supposed to remain with us and nobody would hear about it, but the story somehow got into my fiancée’s ear. I couldn’t deny it because the person that told her showed her evidence, too. I owned up, I didn’t regret what I did because It was the best day of my life but it pained me that she got to learn about it from a bad news monger. The person did a nasty damage to my relationship. I begged her, and she forgave me. But the thing now is she doesn’t trust me again. I see distrust in her words and in her expression. Like she doesn’t even believe in my greetings. And it’s tiring; each time I go out, I have to explain who I went out with, why the phone rang long before I picked it up, and why it took me so long to respond to her messages.
“Please, what can I do to regain her trust?”
Dear Odi, it may take some time for her to trust you again. It’s clear she once held you in very high regard and never expected such a betrayal from you. But since the mistake has already been made, the best you can do now is to be completely honest and transparent with her. Let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no. With time, she may slowly learn to trust you again. Don’t give her any new reason to doubt you. Make her feel valued and let her know she is the best thing in your life. And never make her feel jealous or insecure.
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